Wives of UK undercover thugs
vendredi 6 novembre 2020 à 01:00The wives of UK undercover thugs who used phony romantic relationships to infiltrate various leftist political movements are now complaining that those relationships constituted "infidelity" towards them.
I cannot understand their feeling of loss because it is based on an idea of possessiveness that seems totally wrong to me.
If a woman who loves me starts to love someone else, I worry that she might lose interest in me. But once I know she still loves me, I wish her happiness from her other relationship, and I can be happy for her happiness, along with her love for me.
But even if she stops loving me, I still wish her happiness even though I am bereft.