Operation to not have children
lundi 11 janvier 2021 à 01:00Women who don't want children and ask for operations to prevent it face persistent resistance from doctors that presume everyone will ultimately regret not having children.
In 1983, after I had made the announcement of the plan to develop GNU, the announcement which started the free software movement, a woman I loved asked me to support her and the children we would have in a middle-class lifestyle. I said no, because I did not want that life, and because it would have meant abandoning GNU. That no implied great loneliness, but now I am proud of what I have achieved with my child-free life.
If I had said yes, I doubt I'd have achieved anything important, and I would have regretted every day the decision to give up trying.
I am sure some fraction of women who get sterilized later regret it, just as some women have children later regret it. That is true for every choice people make: always, some fraction regret their choice. But it's impossible to postpone all choices forever.