People don't want to hear that some mothers wish they weren't mothers.
Those who talk about it face personal insults.
Women who have babies are pressured into adopting the narrow and
suffocating social role and attitudes prescribed for mothers. They
understand why other people find them dull, because they find it dull
themselves.
I hear from people who are happy to have children. I can understand
how it might make someone happy, in a world of plenty where raising
children is not a crushing burden and where there is no anxiety
that something might go wrong.
But I can't imagine being happy with
it in the world we are in.